Actually, giving children regular chores to do around the house is not only good for you, but also good for them. It increases their self-esteem and gives them a sense of satisfaction in a job completed. You have to consider that training children to do chores correctly does not happen overnight, and you'll have to overlook that bed they proudly point to as they say "finished!". Okay, so she left her two favorite dolls under the bedspread which you now see as two large lumps. At least the bed is made! 

Of course you can't expect a two-year-old to wash the dishes, so you must match the age of the child to the errand expected of him. Some guidelines to consider are listed below, but feel free to improvise if you feel your child is able to accomplish more... remember, self-esteem is important for both of you! 

Ages 2-3: Help make the bed; hang clothing on hooks; help feed pets; bring in the newspaper; pour from a small pitcher; help pick up the family or play room 

Ages 4-5: Any of the above plus: clear dishes from table; set the table; get the mail; dust; help with groceries

Ages 6-12: Above plus: Take care of pets; cook simple recipes; help wash the car; vacuum, sweep or mop; rake, shovel; do laundry; take out garbage 

Ages 13 up: Above plus: wash windows; clean refrigerator; make meals; mow the lawn; make grocery lists; babysit younger siblings 

Mom: Get a cool glass of lemonade as you oversee all of the above.